Thursday, July 23, 2009
Love is a Mystery and Love Hurts so much!
Love is a beautiful thing. We all learned to love and to be loved since we were born; we were loved by our parents, by our friends and by someone who is so special to our lives. We share our love with them and care all of them as well. Anyway, no one knows exact meaning of love. For me, love is a mystery. Sometimes, you are in love with someone who does not love you. Sometimes, someone else falls in love with you, but you don't love him/her. Sometimes, you are in love with someone and he/she also loves you. But, sometimes love may not stay too long. Those kinds of love may hurt you so much. It is such a period of grieving. There is no reason for those things happen. You cannot do anything to avoid those kinds of love. That's the mystery of love.
Love is not easy at all for someone. Love is so blind; you can do the craziest thing when you are in love. Love brings the worst of pain; you can feel the pain of separation. You may hurt more than you have ever hurt before. Love can fill your eyes with tears. You can feel empty when love has gone.
There are a lot of people who try to find the ways to heal their broken hearts. Some are successful but some are not. For me, the best way to heal the broken heart is to let it be. Just consider it as a natural part of your life. Remember, you only have one heart and having the broken heart isn't the end of your life, so take a moment to heal it. You can go on living in this beautiful world. Stay with your presence. Join as much activities as you can with your best friends and your family. You may plan for a vacation with them at a nice beach somewhere. You just have a good hope and your broken heart can be healed by time, you can improve the way you feel and you will finally be fine.
Believe me, love is the mystery. The greatest love is to love yourself and there is no pain or broken heart. Take care of your feeling before it's too late. Good luck!